In many of our jobs we have to deal with a wide variety of people. Bosses, administrators, co-workers, the community, employees and students. While I always like to assume the best from most people, and take them at their word, it sometimes comes back to punish us for being naive.
How can you tell when an employee is really sick when calling in for a shift? What about when a student is late on their rent and seems to have one story after another, mostly believable but you have that nagging feeling that the truth lies somewhere in the middle?
Most of the time I find myself at work primarily dealing with people issues. I do some accounting spreadsheets, write some contracts, but the bulk of the time is spent talking and dealing with people. I wonder if I am a good judge of character, and can trust the people I’m helping and work with. I wonder if judging character is a skill that I can develop and work on to improve. I wonder, will I become tired and jaded after hearing the same excuse for the 100th time, or the 1,000th time? And when that happens, as is human nature I suppose, will I treat the person with the old excuse differently than I treated the person the first time I heard the excuse? Will I even recognize that I’m treating the two people differently?
At some point, the younger less seasoned employees become wise old veterans. I hope that we don’t lose our enthusiasm and optimism while gaining life and work experiences during the transition. And I hope that the next student story I hear is original. Please, let it be original.